Who Am I?

ISFJ

 I: 22%    S:1%    F:75%     J:1%

The "personality description" was surprisingly accurate and there were many things I do that I didn't realize, so that is good to keep tabs on from now on.  There were only two parts I didn't agree with (which I crossed out), but that's bound to happen in a quick little test like this.  Here are some of the descriptions which I felt very relevant to myself:


"ISFJs are characterized above all by their desire to serve others, their "need to be needed." In extreme cases, this need is so strong that standard give-and-take relationships are deeply unsatisfying to them; however, most ISFJs find more than enough with which to occupy themselves within the framework of a normal life.

...although they're hurt by being treated like doormats, they are often unwilling to toot their own horns about their accomplishments because they feel that although they deserve more credit than they're getting, it's somehow wrong to want any sort of reward for doing work (which is supposed to be a virtue in itself). (And as low-profile Is, their actions don't call attention to themselves as with charismatic Es.) Because of all of this, ISFJs are often overworked, and as a result may suffer from psychosomatic illnesses.

While their work ethic is high on the ISFJ priority list, their families are the centers of their lives. ISFJs are extremely warm and demonstrative within the family circle--and often possessive of their loved ones, as well.
 Needless to say, ISFJs take infinite trouble over meals, gifts, celebrations, etc., for their loved ones.

Like most Is, ISFJs have a few, close friends. They are extremely loyal to these, and are ready to provide emotional and practical support at a moment's notice. (However, like most Fs they hate confrontation; if you get into a fight, don't expect them to jump in after you. You can count on them, however, run and get the nearest authority figure.) Unlike with EPs, the older the friendship is, the more an ISFJ will value it. One ISFJ trait that is easily misunderstood by those who haven't known them long is that they are often unable to either hide or articulate any distress they may be feeling. For instance, an ISFJ child may be reproved for "sulking," the actual cause of which is a combination of physical illness plus misguided "good manners." An adult ISFJ may drive a (later ashamed) friend or SO into a fit of temper over the ISFJ's unexplained moodiness, only afterwards to explain about a death in the family they "didn't want to burden anyone with." Those close to ISFJs should learn to watch for the warning signs in these situations and take the initiative themselves to uncover the problem."


The only reason I disagreed with those two crossed out portions is because I personally did not agree with them; I don't expect a give-and-take relationship at all or feel an insatiable "need to be needed".  Also I would say that in I fight, I would be the first to rush in to protect a friend-no matter the circumstance.  That may be the oh so strong emotions motivating me or my disdain for disrespect.  Who knows, since I've never been in a fight before.

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But now on to the Affirmation Solicitations!!
First off, I just want to say thank you to those who filled these out as it was a great encouragement and very helpful.

5 of my words were:
1. Understanding
2. Genuine
3. Maturity
4. Humble
5. Perseverant

"Over the years, Hanna has shown tremendous growth in her personal development, spiritual life, and leadership capabilities.  She has a natural, yet uncanny, sense of adaptability; Hanna is able to observe and gather information about her surrounding, peer environment, and social climate and assess needs, both the needs of those around her and her own needs to flourish and succeed.  This is one trait that is foundational to her growth as a leader.  What really makes her stand out is her ability to come alongside people and partner with them, to see the best in everyone and highlight that.  In all that though, Hanna has such a pleasant and humble spirit and such a heart for service.  She is all too ready to deter praise and acknowledge her human limitations, but that doesn't stop her from loving on people, and I believe that is a very rare kind of confidence."

This little litany (hehe) especially touched me because the individual didn't know I was going to read this and just thought it was for my teachers.  He may or may not have freaked out a little when he found out I was going to read it, but I'm all the more appreciative of his words knowing he was being honest (I hope....).

Sorry this somehow became insanely long but I appreciate if you read all the way through!! :)